Had the pleasure of chatting with Lyndsey Havens for Billboard Magazine about our work at Pass The Mic with Portugal. The Man, Boygenius, Lucy Dacus, NOFX, Re:Set Concert Series, and others.
The story is in the current print issue of Billboard, on stands now! You can also check out the online version here.
Thank you to everyone who has partnered with us on this work over these years. If you are a band, manager, label, promoter, venue, or organization and would like to get involved with Pass The Mic, hit us up! We are here to help activate your tour in the direction of the community. All you have to do is reach out.
Oct 11, 2022Comments Off on Today is National Coming Out Day. I’ve Been Out for 30 Years.
October 11th is National Coming Out Day and today I’m celebrating 30 years of being openly queer. It was really unsafe when I was outed as a teenager in the early ‘90s in the Midwest and I’ve been in a process of reclaiming that experience and rescripting that narrative ever since.
Looking at photos of me from that time, it’s hard to imagine anyone hating or wanting to hurt this kid — but it was a different time in the world. I don’t see a 14 year old who has demons in him when I look at this picture. I see a sweet gay kid with big dreams, who deserved better than the hateful, anti-gay church he was born into.
For me, coming out is an ongoing process. I feel like I come out every day, in every room I enter. The term ‘coming out’ means different things to different people, and it’s informed by our individual experiences in the world. You’re still queer before you’re out. Out is a state of mind as much as it is a political act.
Are you able to be your whole self in every room you enter? If so, great. But that’s not always safe. I think people should come out when it works for them and when they are going to be safe in that process. This looks different for everybody.
It’s hard to be afraid of people when you know them to be good, and it’s even harder to hate someone you already love. Whether we are talking about our families, communities, or Hollywood, LGBTQ+ people demanding to be seen and celebrated while showing people who we really are, helps facilitate that.
