Been trying not to give into the madness all around or succumb to the grief in the living room. I keep just showing up instead of hiding, but I do think hiding sounds nice.

Anyway, some dude hit on me in the elevator while I was dressed like Prada Smurf and it made me smile. Not at him, mind you — but on the inside. (We aren’t smiling back at men right now.)

Prada
G-Star Raw

Happy 1st birthday to SOFTCORE! We released the single and video on June 5th 2024, followed by the full album and accompanying short film a couple days later.

Thank you to everyone who wrote about it when it came out, and to all of you who bought the vinyl or CD, or have added it to a playlist somewhere along the way. I’m just some gay guy who has been making songs for the past 3 decades and I love that some of you care.

If you have never listened to my music before, start HERE.

Hey gang. Appreciate all of your excitement and support for me and Casey over these years. It has been fun to share our falling in love with all of you.

Figured you should know that we have decided to call off the wedding and also to end our relationship. Life is just taking us on different journeys.

Mister Bear has gone to live with Casey, and Pretty Baby and I are back flying solo again. We gave it a solid go but in the end, this is what we have decided is best for our family.

Here’s to love, and here’s to trying! I regret nothing. ❤️